
Originally Posted by
BillandMargaret
My husband Bill and I are doing this together but since he's a two finger typist and I'm a former computer programmer (lots and lots of typing) I'll do the posting for us both.
Bill's midterm - planned and unplanned.
Since we live in the middle of nowhere USA, getting products can be a problem. The nearest small city is 50 miles away and the grocery store is 20 miles away. We had a cracked windshield on an older Chevy S10 truck (that we own because it runs on compressed natural gas.) Bill decided to visualize calling our local car repair shop and having them say, "We have one of those in stock. Bring it on in and we'll install it for you." He first thought of calling the place we'd used before to replace our windshield - just 45 miles away. But then, as he looked through the local paper he saw an ad for a place he'd never noticed before that was only 15 miles away. He called both places. The one we knew about said they'd have to order it in and it would take three days to get it. And yep, the place we'd never heard of, said, "We have one in stock. Bring it in today and we'll install it for you."
Then Bill was using our backhoe to level out some spots in our driveway and it stopped working right at the end of our driveway so we couldn't get in or out (and it's a looooonnnng country driveway) plus we needed to get to the post office 5 miles away every day to drop off packages for our internet business. Bill tried a half dozen things but nothing worked and it was getting dark. He tried visualizing doing one more thing, imagining his gratitude, turning the key and having it start right up. Which it did. Hurray!
Margaret - I chose something simple. A cobalt blue vase filled with yellow daffodils on my dining room table. It's been a long winter and they weren't blooming yet. I chose visualizing and being grateful for them appearing the next day. Bill said, "You're going to have them next week when they bloom." I said, "Yes but I will be happiest if I have them now and they come as a surprise!" But they didn't come until the next week when they bloomed as expected. To be honest, I don't think I was all that committed to the idea of them. I had more of a "it would be nice but it's not necessary" attitude. I think you have to care. For example I cared in this next story.
I got pulled over for turning right on a red when the sign clearly said, according to the officer, that there was no right turn on red. In fact, he pointed out, it wasn't much of a stop either. I had no excuse. I had actually seen the sign but then sort of spaced it as I rolled on through after a minimal stop. So, I said, "I am so sorry. I have no excuse." "Were you in a hurry," he asked. "Nope. I really have no excuse. I really am sorry." Off he went with my license and registration. And I sat and visualized him coming back and saying, "I"m just going to give you a warning but ..." Sure enough that's exactly what he said as he handed me the warning paper. yay! I still have a ticket free license! Now that I cared about.